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Anonymous

Mum of One (Infant)

Specialist Geologist

I was fortunate to transition into an office-based role to improve my technical skills after five years of field work, which I loved (and miss). I work for a large organisation that actively promotes gender diversity and publicly champions flexible working arrangements to support work–life balance.

Throughout my pregnancy and parental leave, my experience was overwhelmingly positive. I felt genuinely supported by my direct leader, maintained regular contact with my team during my leave, and had confidence in my organisation's parental leave policies. The HR documentation was comprehensive, well written, and gave me every reason to believe that my transition back to work would be well supported.

Unfortunately, my return-to-work experience did not reflect those expectations. While my direct leader continued to be supportive, decisions made by more senior leaders were inconsistent with both the company's published HR policies and the recommendations outlined by the Fair Work Commission. At the time, this left me feeling unsupported and particularly vulnerable during what is already a significant life transition.

As I spoke with other first-time mothers within the organisation, I discovered that many had experienced similar challenges when returning from parental leave. Although it was uncomfortable, I chose to challenge the decisions that affected my return to work. Approximately a year later, I was assured that improvements would be made for future employees.

Becoming a mother has changed my perspective on work. I feel driven by doing what's right rather than pursuing career progression at this point in my life.

Advice for other mums

Reflecting on my experience, my advice to parents preparing to return to work is to be as informed and proactive as possible. Connect with colleagues who have recently returned from parental leave and seek practical advice about their experiences. If you plan to continue breastfeeding after returning to work, visit the workplace facilities you will be using—such as carers' or lactation rooms—before commencing leave so you understand what is available. Find a buddy who you can have a coffee and chat with when you return to work after parental leave. It is also important to plan the practical aspects of your return well in advance. In my organisation, for example, building access, laptop access, and access to carers' rooms all required requests from my leader and were not automatically reinstated. These administrative requirements can create unnecessary stress if they are overlooked. Finally, take the time to understand your workplace rights and entitlements. Familiarise yourself with both your organisation's parental leave policies and the Fair Work Commission's guidance on returning to work, including the legal requirements surrounding flexible work requests. Knowing your rights can help you advocate for yourself and ensure that your transition back to work is as smooth and supportive as it should be.

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